Every situation you have encountered forms the person you are today. Sometimes these will make you feel happy, while at other times you may feel profoundly miserable. In these moments of dejection our wounds are opened.
There are a number of wounds which we are able to heal with time, but never finish scarring. These remind us that something or someone may be hurtful or painful to us. A few of these wounds are:
1. Humiliation
We are humiliated when someone attacks our personal dignity in different manners. This is a form of denigration, be it done privately or publicly, the latter being even tougher to overcome.
The consequences of feeling humiliated will directly affect one’s self-esteem, confidence toward others, and one’s hope in what they do and expect from the world. When someone humiliates you, it feels as though they have taken something away that belonged to you in the cruelest way possible.
2. Disappointment
When someone disappoints us, it destroys all our expectations and hopes. This is a mix of shock, anger, surprise and heartache. It may come from a family member, a childhood friend, a work colleague, or simply someone we considered to be a good person, incapable of betraying certain principles, respect towards us, or towards the world in general. We may come to feel frustrated by such a disappointment, even depressed, and evidently our ability to trust in others will find itself to be reduced or possibly even eliminated.
3. Betrayal
Generally when we have been betrayed it is because someone has first taken our trust, we have confided in their word to the very end, and we believed that all their actions were honest and sincere; but we then discover that, in reality, it was all quite the contrary.
What is our first sensation? Disbelief, then possibly anger, sadness, a feeling of having humiliated ourselves.
No matter who left the wounds and scars on your mind and soul, always remember that there is something wrong with them, not you. Normal people do not go around destroying other human beings…
THE END
Source: 5 Wounds of the Soul Which Heal, but Leave Scars.
Credits:
- Image 1 from themindsjournal.com
- Image 2 from How do I Recover from Trauma and Humiliation?
- Image 3 from 9Shades.com
- Image 4 from DPsayings.com
- Image 5 from the SelfLoveU blog
Otrazhenie 
Betrayle and humiliation are an extension from the root of expextation, in our opinion. It’s tough not to have expectations in life, however, if we work hard at it, we’ll be able to forgive ourselves whenever we feel betrayed or humiliated.
Yes, we will eventually display those scars with acceptance…bound in a love profound.
May your scars be of that love ❤️
🙂
Betrayal and humiliation cause great pain.
So true 😔