False Accusations: Guilty Until Proven Innocent

“When one person makes an accusation, check to be sure he himself is not the guilty one. Sometimes it is those whose case is weak who make the most clamour.”

Piers Anthony

From http://www.saveservices.org

I personally met victims of false allegations and witnessed the devastating effect of such allegations on them and their families. One of the stories I came across is provided below.  I was shocked to discover that  in cases I came across the false accusers have not been prosecuted for their actions.

The high rate of false allegations identified in various studies  is truly alarming:

Unfortunately, these studies provide no information on whether the proven false accusers have been prosecuted for their actions.

False allegations is a crime that ruins people’s lives therefore I firmly believe that all false-accusers should be severely prosecuted for their actions.

From http://www.equalparenting-bc.ca/

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( Russia, 1990s)

(  Photo by Ruslan Lobanov  )

I met Nina in the orphanage where I was working. She just came back to teaching from the maternity leave. I always admired Nina. She was a very good teacher, full of compassion and love. She knew how to talk to children and make them feel good. She had three children of her own, which probably helped. Once I asked her why they decided to have that many children, as people rarely had more than one child at that time, if any at all. Life was too tough and unstable.

“It’s a long story,” – she said. “I married straight after graduating from the Pedagogical University. My husband was a teacher as well. By the time we had our second child he was offered a position of the deputy-principal in one of the local schools.

That year we got an offer through the district teachers board to apply for a one-year work-experience position in the UK. There was only one such position for the whole district. We perfectly fitted the criteria – a family of teachers with two kids and one of the adults having a managerial position within the school sector. We both could speak English. We both were very excited about that offer, as we have never been overseas before.

However a few weeks after we submitted our application, the principal of the school called my husband for a private chat. A mother of a 15-year-old student filed a complaint that he was sexually harassing her daughter at school. We both were shocked, all the teachers at school were stunned. No one believed the allegations. My husband hardly knew this girl and had never been with her alone.

He was stood down as a deputy-principal while the school was investigating the issue. It turned out that there was no issue at all after all. The girl herself knew nothing about the allegations and her mum soon withdrew her complaint. But while the school has been dealing with that complaint, we missed out on the trip to the UK.

A few months later the girl’s mother admitted that she was paid by the principal of a neighboring school to file this complain, so that he could go to UK with his family. And he did.

We both were very depressed and stunned by these false allegations. So we could not think of anything better to cheer ourselves up than having another baby. And we did.”

Her face lit up with a tired smile. “But I need to go now. My grandma is sick, so I need to get some medication for her before picking up the older kids from school and the little one from the creche.”

Nina and her husband were sharing their small cramped apartment with her mother, her mother-in-law and her grandmother. Five adults and three little kids under the same roof – they surely had a very “cheerful”  life.


(Photo by dopopioggia )


10 thoughts on “False Accusations: Guilty Until Proven Innocent

  1. satzie says:

    It is good to see, a different and commonly missed out perspective.
    Love the quote. Your selection of quotes are unique, especially the particular style it carries.
    Also loved the story “Nina” and had some laughs.
    Good post. 🙂

  2. Jenni says:

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  3. Mélanie says:

    have you watched this interesting movie?… here’s why:

    • Otrazhenie says:

      Very good video. And that was only a gossip – the effect of false accusations is even more devastating, especially when innocent people end up in prisons or lose access to their children 😦

  4. PookyH says:

    Sadly teachers seem to be hugely vulnerable to false allegations and often cannot or will not recover their career even if proven innocent.

  5. bkpyett says:

    So often fact is stranger than fiction. What a sad story, and what an atrocious act by that woman to stop the family going to England!

    • Otrazhenie says:

      So true, Barbara, so true. I find particularly shocking that such false accusers often get away with their actions. That creates an environment, that encourages false accusations.

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