From Banana Moments
I’m 99% angel, but oh, that 1%, particularly my grouchiness… Grouchiness is in my nature as well as nurture, though luckily that grouchy nature got diluted a bit by sprinkles of humour by the time it got to me from my dear grandma.
My dear nannaย was not just a grouch, but a Super Grouchy Grouch. Being a bit of a perfectionist, she always puts a lot of effort into everything ๐ . I do not blame her though – she did have a tough life. Still love my tough grouchy nanna. ๐
No matter how hard I am trying to tame grandma’s grouchy genes, every now and then they pop out, especially when I get under pressure. While I never learned to manage pressure without grouchiness, fortunately, my nearest and dearest learned to manage my grouchiness with grace.
If you have a grouch in your family, do not let his or her grouchiness to wind you up. Respond with a joke or simply give your family grouch a smile, a hug and/or a kiss. Though you might not see any warm response behind the grouchy surface, deep inside your grouch will be pleased. ๐ That might be all your grouch needs to get over it. ๐
Also, keep your grouch well fed to prevent him or her from getting hAngry. ๐
From Hanger Management
Or, may be, you are a grouch too? Then welcome to My Grouch Family. As the saying goes, “soft words butter no parsnips”. May be, our grouching will do ๐
And here is one of my favourite grouches who made this world a better place for over a million of people:
Fred’s grouchy story is available on my blog.
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Gentle prompts for grouch calming
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Hangry grouches are no fun;
I should know because I’m one.
Feed me quick and I’ll become
the nicest lady you’ve ever known!
Wow, love it. I’ll pin these verses around my house for all my nearest and dearest to get the hint ๐
cute. what a nice explanation for good old mood swings.
He-he, glad that you call them ‘good’ – those old mood swings ๐
Love the story and the photos! Pina
Glad to hear that. Thanks ๐ Have a wonderful week. ๐
Oh yes, and your blog! ๐
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Beautiful, thanks for sharing and visiting my cyber space. ๐
The pleasure is mine. ๐ Have a wonderful week. ๐
Human emotions are beautiful.. and grouchiness is exquisite.. wonderfully written..:)
Oh, you make me feel so blessed and proud of possessing such exquisite grouchiness. ๐
I’m of the opinion that grouchiness is to be worn as a Medal of Honor for those of us who have reached a certain age. Beyond that age, allowances cover a myriad of what would be termed “unacceptable” in polite society. It is that a veneer that hides what is really teeming just below the surface of those acceptably behaving people is worn away by time, and is, at best, transparent it has become so thin.
Thank you for dropping by my website. On the subject of grouchiness, you might check out my poem, Curmudgeoning.
SM
He-he, loved your poem. The picture is awesome too. ๐
I can so relate to feeding the ‘Grouch!’ This is one of the lessons I have learnt through living with my grouchy morning family.
My children get very grouchy after school. As soon as they enter the house, I quickly feed them before they even get a chance to open their mouth for a grouch. It makes such a huge difference ๐
I am gonna paraphrase here from a book I read while I was living and working in the Sinai Desert:
“Keeping a grouch in your disposition is like keeping a dinosaur sleeping on your front lawn: If you keep waking him up and feeding him, one day he will step on your house.”
Now, that is a poor paraphrase, but it may fit here.
(or maybe not)
At any rate…
Loved the post. And the sentiment in it.
Good job.
Great photos too.
Cheers,
Lance
You are too hard on us, poor grouches. ๐ Surely we are not that bad. At least, my house is still there ๐
Glad that you enjoyed that post ๐
OK Ok…Your house has a pass.
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loved it! thanks for sharing…I know I am 99% happy go lucky but boy oh boy when that 1% grouch hits, look out! hehe ๐
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But just this once. (And don’t go tellin’ all the other grouch’es. I have a rep to hold up, ya know?!)
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Shhh, love keeping secrets on my blog ๐
*very quietly* he whispers: ooookkkkk….
LAUGHING OUT LOUD…
Aw shit!
I could not help it….sorry sorry sorry.
*runs and hides*
I love this, I think a little grouchiness is a nice balance. ๐
Good point – it is all about balance ๐