Sometimes you meet a person and you just click…


Have you ever felt like that? 

I hope my blog makes you click too. You are always welcome here with no need to pretend to be anyone or anything.

Enjoy 🙂 



17 thoughts on “Sometimes you meet a person and you just click…

  1. satzie says:

    I’ve met some people whom i’m comfortable with. And one person, with whom i felt myself in the other, kind of my mirror image. Many events, characteristics, life style, thoughts, taste, phases of life were so common. Many/majority but not all. But never had the feeling of known for so long. Though, had such kind of comfortable feeling. I don’t get the idea of pretend, may be some examples can help me understand. 🙂

    • Otrazhenie says:

      It happened to me only a few times. On both occasions with people I knew for a while – not closely though. And suddenly the way they were talking and doing things started making sense, started looking familiar. Like a reflection of my own thoughts and feelings. Like a ‘mirror image’ as you put it into words. There were of cause lots of differences between us, but those differences seemed to be complimentary – like my weaknesses were the other person’s strengths and vice versa. It was a wonderful feeling of completeness, wonderful feeling of being comfortable with just being yourself, without worrying about being misunderstood. Miss that delightful feeling…

      • satzie says:


        The person i referred is a girl. Sometimes i think the differences between us were due to some nature, like the gender, the geography, and a small time gap. There were some instances between us, where if she says A, i would say B. But if she had said B, i would have said A. There were such kind of differences, naturally occurring. And few more differences were due to slight time gap, that is, few things which i experience now, she might experience a year after, vice versa. But on the whole, there were many common aspects. To put it shortly, even though there are some differences, i feel that if i was she, then thats how i would be.
        And i too, have felt the feel of completeness, complementary characteristics.
        Initially i thought it was something like good. Then, didn’t think much on it. I’m not against it. I admire it actually.
        If you had understood that A and B concept i said above, you will be able to understand what i’m going to say now. I sometimes think, that, because i talk too much to her, she talks less. Because i sound so courageously, she might be little hesitant. So, when i balance my talkative nature, she would talk more. And when i’m balancing my too much show offs, she will shine a little more. It is not because i want to change her, i change myself, no, thats not my goal. It is just i’m balancing myself, that is the focus. But since she is like a mirror image of mine, she will find herself balanced too. And in the course of balance, little changes bound to happen( Imagine a seesaw getting balanced ). I hope this could help you to understand why “worry of misunderstanding” may bound to happen. May be some feelings/experience of the other person are getting balanced on yours.
        I know & understand, it is something which might be a little uncomfortable, but i believe you might be able to feel some good balances too.

      • Otrazhenie says:

        Balance is the key word to me too 🙂

    • Katie says:

      You don’t know me, but my name is Katie. I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed reading your heartfelt comments behind this beautiful poem. Thank you for sharing your thoughts so many of us are more alike than we know. ~ Katie

  2. There are people in life whom on first meeting you feel very comfortable with. Often you wish you had more time to spend with them.

    • Otrazhenie says:

      And sometimes you know a person for a while, and then it suddenly clicks… and you start discovering a bit of yourself in that person, seeing reflections of your own thoughts and feelings. Very weird but delightful feeling… 🙂

  3. Absolutely, one guy I met in Lisbon we just hit it off straight away and unfortunately he lived just round the corner……too easy to meet up just for a beer. 😮

  4. NLS @ says:

    A perfect thought / reminder for Valentine’s Day! Thank you for posting! And thank you “Otrazhenie” for visiting my blog. 🙂

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