GREAT DREAM to happier living

 Happiness-quotesFrom How to find happiness

Everyone’s path to happiness is different, but the evidence suggests that the following Ten Keys consistently tend to have a positive impact on people’s happiness and well-being:

  1. Giving:
    Giving is good for you. When we give to others it activates the areas of the brain associated with pleasure, social connection and trust. Altruistic behaviour releases endorphins in the brain and boosts happiness for us as well as the people we help.
  2. Relating:
    People with strong and broad social relationships are happier, healthier and live longer. Close relationships with family and friends provide love, meaning, support and increase our feelings of self worth. Broader networks bring a sense of belonging.
  3. Exercising:
    Our body and our mind are connected. Being active makes us happier as well as being good for our physical health. It instantly improves our mood and can even lift us out of a depression. We don’t all need to run marathons – there are simple things we can all do to be more active each day. And we can also boost our well-being by unplugging from technology, getting outside and – importantly – making sure we get enough sleep!
  4. Appreciating:
    Ever felt there must be more to life? Well good news, there is! And it’s right here in front of us. We just need to stop and take notice. Learning to be more mindful and aware can do wonders for our well-being in all areas of life – like our walk to work, the way we eat or our relationships. It helps us get in tune with our feelings and stops us dwelling on the past or worrying about the future – so we get more out of the day-to-day.
  5. Trying out:
    Learning affects our well-being in lots of positive ways. It exposes us to new ideas and helps us stay curious and engaged. It also gives us a sense of accomplishment and helps boost our self-confidence and resilience. There are many ways to learn new things – not just through formal qualifications. We can share a skill with friends, join a club, learn to sing, play a new sport and so much more.
  6. Direction:
    Feeling good about the future is important for our happiness. We all need goals to motivate us and these need to be challenging enough to excite us, but also achievable. If we try to attempt the impossible this brings unnecessary stress. Choosing ambitious but realistic goals gives our lives direction and brings a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction when we achieve them.
  7. Resilience:
    All of us have times of stress, loss, failure or trauma in our lives. But how we respond to these has a big impact on our wellbeing. We often cannot choose what happens to us, but in principle we can choose our own attitude to what happens. In practice it’s not always easy, but one of the most exciting findings from recent research is that resilience, like many other life skills, can be learned.
  8. Emotions:
    Positive emotions – like joy, gratitude, contentment, inspiration, and pride – are not just great at the time. Recent research shows that regularly experiencing them creates an ‘upward spiral’, helping to build our resources. So although we need to be realistic about life’s ups and downs, it helps to focus on the good aspects of any situation – the glass half full rather than the glass half empty.
  9. Acceptance:
    No-one’s perfect. But so often we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. Dwelling on our flaws – what we’re not rather than what we’ve got – makes it much harder to be happy. Learning to accept ourselves, warts and all, and being kinder to ourselves when things go wrong, increases our enjoyment of life, our resilience and our well-being. It also helps us accept others as they are.
  10. Meaning:
    People who have meaning and purpose in their lives are happier, feel more in control and get more out of what they do. They also experience less stress, anxiety and depression. But where do we find ‘meaning and purpose’? It might be our religious faith, being a parent or doing a job that makes a difference. The answers vary for each of us but they all involve being connected to something bigger than ourselves.

All together, these ten keys are sure to turn your life into a

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Research also shows that a key component of happiness is a sense of control over your life. So pick up these keys, get in charge of your life and free yourself from the cage of unhappiness. Remember, the light can be found in even the darkest places.



14 thoughts on “GREAT DREAM to happier living

  1. Great post, lots to take in on this one. Loved the music. A friend and I have been doing the “science of happiness’ exercise on gratitude, here is a link:

    We have found this a great exercise to do.

    Thanks for your post.

  2. ĽAdelaide says:

    What a perfect bit of wisdom to bring into my world this day. And the music was gorgeous… must look for more of her! Thank you for this offering. ♥

  3. ksirahsirah says:

    Beautiful post to read this morning. Thank you for the kind reminders.

  4. Cris says:

    That’s one talented woman, to say nothing being quite sexy. Sorry, facts are facts. I also listened to her “Halo Theme” and found that awesome. Thanks for sharing.

  5. Beautiful post. Thanks for visiting my blog – I got to c urs because of that. Awesome words. Just what I needed. Thank you 🙂 god bless.

  6. johnlmalone says:

    a great post. I have bookmarked this. thanks

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